February 13, 2018

“The” Two Most Effective Tools to Aid Your Recovery from Abuse

This week, we continue our series with Patrick Bennett, shares about the two most important tools that help him leave the pain of the past behind him.


The seaside village that was the centre of my childhood sits in the middle of the beautiful and rugged “Hook Peninsula” in county Wexford, Ireland and at its tip where the Atlantic meets the Irish sea sits the world famous “Hook Lighthouse”. 

Its beauty as far as the “Tourism blurb” promised a different beach every day for a fortnights vacation but, for the “Locals” who knew better -- it has so many,
many more. 

For me, its ultimate beauty was to be found laying on the cushioned fluffy grass beneath the lighthouse late at night and early morning and losing myself in the beams of light cutting through the heavenly blanket of stars and planets that lit up the night sky to a never-ending heartbeat of the oceans waves as they pounded the rocks and shoreline.

It was there that I discovered “The” two most important tools that proved so valuable and influential on my road to becoming more than just a survivor, to being me again! 

For so many years the beauty of the area was taken from me as there was literally not one place there that didn’t stir up memories, feelings, terrors of the horrific things that I and so many more of my friends were subjected to as young teenagers and so  I stayed away from the place, my friends, my family, forever running away from those same thoughts and feelings or at least trying to run away for over ten years only getting the courage, the overriding craving for just one night beneath that light house and cuddle myself up into the blanket of stars above on a handful of occasions when I was sure that I would be alone.

As I lay there thinking, reminiscing about times and friends long gone, I would inevitably bring to mind the horrors of my past but slowly and I don’t know why or from where, I began to let my mind and thoughts run free, to think about everything and nothing at all, just me, the grass, the ocean and the stars, nothing else really mattered which led me to realize that the hardest thing I was running from was not some demon, it was me. 

I was the one giving the power to my thoughts and my greatest fears, so I returned to my car and eventually I found the two most important tools I could ever dream of, a pencil and a piece of paper before returning to my blanket from heaven, let my mind drift away and started to write,
yes, write nothing more. 

After all the counselling, psychiatric treatments and medications, police and lawyers, it all came down to that realization that these two everyday items would prove to be so valuable and powerful.

With these two things and giving yourself the gift if even for a few minutes to let your mind go free and your thoughts drift away you can and will begin the greatest journey towards healing and recovery. Yes I know it won't be as easy as I say straight away and there will be times when things come up for you that cause great pain and suffering but trust me, I’ve been there and I know what that feels like, but if you stick with it you will amaze yourself at where your thoughts go and because you’ve written it all down you will be able to look back in years to come and be pleasantly surprised at the power you have within.

Personally I find it easier by the sea or a rippling stream as when, as I often do, I have bad experiences, I can just let them flow away in the flowing water but if that is not an option for you try finding some place that you feel safe, feel that you can just be yourself and allow your heart, body, mind and soul to breathe deeply, relax and drift away even if, as I say, its only for a minute or two but as you continue you will be pleasantly surprised how often and more readily these moments of freedom begin to appear.

So, when you have found your place of peace, settle down in whatever position is most comfortable for you, close your eyes and just breathe, slowly, gently and deeply for as long as you feel you need to be totally relaxed. Try to focus on absolutely nothing, just let your mind and thoughts drift away to where ever it wants to go and yes in the beginning this may mean visiting places you don’t particularly want to but go there anyway, don’t try to think about anything or anyone just drift away. 

Now instead of focusing on the darkness try to focus on what is going on around it, after all it’s not the place that hurt you, it was or is a person in a moment of time and like every moment of time, they pass in a fleeting second, the important thing is what that moment contains. 

What was the weather like? Was it sunny? If so how did the sun feel on your skin? Was it raining? If so describe the sound of the raindrops on the window? Was there a butterfly flying by? An apple pie baking in the oven? Describe how it smelt, its taste? Anything and everything that drifts into your thoughts, your mind, write them down, don’t worry about categorizing them or putting them in order, that can be done later. Just relax and remember you are free, free to remember and think about what you want and not what someone else wants you to. Its your power, take it back and never let it go. Just relax and breathe.

You see I look at it this way, yes bad things happen, happened to me but in the midst of that torture, that pain there was beauty and wonder all around me, from the oceans waves to the single butterfly or that apple pie, they are all things I missed because of my focus on what happened, but they were there all the same no matter how black the darkness may be. But always remember to write it down, every single thought or feeling, good or bad and when you are finished for that day store them away for awhile before going back to them and then noting anything new that may have come up again no matter be they good or bad things that you had forgotten, even the smallest detail which is the hidden gift in the midst of all of this as you can then empower yourself even further by presenting this new information to your counselor which will help your recovery even more and even to police or lawyers if you are in the process of seeking justice or bringing criminal charges.

Finally. Never stop writing, carry a small notepad and pen with you no matter how strange that may feel as you never know when something will crop up or you get an urge to write and over time you may as I do find yourself writing poetry, short stories or even your autobiography but that’s on your road to recovery and your choice to make because you will now have taken at least that piece of your power back and at the very least you will have a repertoire of happy memories and stories to tell instead of the darkkness

Stay safe and well,


"The ruthless honesty of Mr. Bennett means that this is not a story with a sentimental and unambiguously happy ending. He is still on a journey that is sometimes difficult and painful, but he has shown remarkable courage, integrity and honesty and done the community a service by writing this extraordinary and valuable book."

February 4, 2018

When Hindsight Isn't 20/20

This month, Patrick Bennett, author and survivor of abuse at the hands of a priest, will be sharing his story and exploring the journey he has been on towards healing. In this post, Patrick describes the three distinct groups of people impacted by the heinous abuse committed by Father Sean Fortune.


Winter's setting sun pierces my eyes forcing me to close my blinds on the world. Safe once again from the judgmental eyes and screaming body language of those I encountered throughout my day. As I do this, my own eyes open wider, gifting me the chance to look into my soul, the deepest, darkest abyss of my shredded life clinging soul. Allowing me the added chance to look into its damage, its pain, its memories.

When that insatiable Satan like priest turned child rapist found himself cornered and with nowhere to hide, nowhere to run and took his own rancid life he was facing 66 charges of child rape and molestation. If truth be known both those that then found the courage to also come forward and those who sadly could not and those who sadly could not take anymore and ended their own lives down through the years, I really believe the figure would be closer to a number that suited him more, that number being 666.

That may seem an imagination gone wild or indeed a convenient coping mechanism of my deeply damaged mind -- sadly it is not and is so, so real. But if only it were as simple as that, if only I could gather together all those innocent little boys that he preyed on and say to you now, look, here is the list of names that he savaged and yet survived, a list of the little boys that will forever have to battle in life, battle to survive the pain, physical and emotional, the demon within and here is a separate list of those who so sadly lost their battles over the years. But I can’t do that, its just not that simple when I look back into my soul.

Before I go on, I must make it clear to you that I fully respect and in no way, am judgmental or in any way critical of any of those who may, or may not feel they are included in the depths of my deepest thoughts and/or memories of what they were a part of and in several cases I was and still am close friends with to this day.

In my autobiography "Taking Back My Soul" I describe how I was confronted by a member of my own extended family shortly after my court case had been settled. During that confrontation and sadly on many, many occasions since by various people whom I really fear either don’t know the extent of the hurt and pain they are causing or are trying to hide their own pain or guilt by asking that sickening question "Why are you so down, so depressed? Yes, ok we get it, you were abused and raped, but didn’t you get well compensated for it? Didn’t you get 250,000 reasons to get over it and get on with your life?"

That’s what got me thinking as I do, got me looking back, seeing things more clearly and when I speak to, think or read about "All" those who were abused, raped, savaged by that demon disguised as a priest it got me thinking, grouping them in a way that would to many be so unbelievable, so depraved but is totally clear now.

Firstly, and with all the love and respect I have, I group those poor, sweet, innocent young lads who just couldn’t fight it anymore, couldn’t take it and sadly took their own lives in a seemingly never-ending list. Then I start thinking about all those I know personally who were his victims and "Survived" for want of a better word, and it is through talking to some of them about what happened to them and others myself included all those years ago, I find more and more that in fact it is not simply a case of there being two groups of victims, those who "Survived" and those who sadly didn’t. In fact, there are actually "Three" distinct groups of his victims.

Let me explain, at that time and forever since people ask why nobody said anything, nobody stopped him, and to a large extent that is true but yet again in hindsight we did say things about him, we did tell but like myself we suffered immensely for it both at the hands of those we told and to a worse extent by him. But we didn’t just tell others verbally, we told everyone by our actions and state of mind for our age and its that way of thinking that leaves me with the scenario of there actually being three distinct groups of Victims of Father Sean Fortune.

Father Fortune was a monster, an insatiable Satan like child rapist who would rape and abuse as many innocent kids in the most horrific way when, where and as often as he wanted, and I really do mean as often as he wanted and usually that would mean at least three or four times a day, every day for countless years. He would see someone he wanted and pounce with absolutely no fear or exception. Sadly, that is the group I and so many of my dear friends both living, and dead belong to. I can only describe it as us being nothing more than pieces of meat, there for no other reason than his pleasure or latest depraved fantasy for as long or often as he wanted.

But then there was the other side of Father Fortune, the soft, kind, gentle side, the side who would be involved in anything and everything whether wanted or not in a tiny Irish village of the 1980s and on so many occasions became an integral part of families in what ever area he was hunting in. He would worm his way into families, gain their trust by being the kind of priest anyone could hope to have as a family friend. Parents and their kids and these people would not have a bad word said about him and in a lot of cases still don’t. To them he was truly a man of God, holy and pious and such a gem to have in their community.

But this was in fact just a game that ended up with him gaining enough trust and respect of these families that they would encourage their young sons to spend time with him. Be so proud to accept his invitation for them to spend weekends and sometimes longer as his guest in his house. To a large extent these young lads were treated like princes during their visits to his house, at least to the outside public, they were paraded around with him for all to see. It was as if he was acting like they were in a relationship, they were his favourites and he was so gentle, caring and kind to them. Yes, they suffered untold horrors in the privacy of his home but to us back then and in a very surreal way it was if he were or wanted to be in a loving relationship with them as we know it these days. Never the less as I look back my hindsight can only allow me to group these poor lads in the second group of his victims.

That leaves me with the third and final group, the group that should turn my stomach, should disgust me but when I think of them both as they are today and were back then all I can do is pity them, really, really pity them. These young lads knew exactly what Father Fortune was like and what he was capable of, yet they knowingly put themselves directly in his line of vision and madness but with one huge exception and for want of a better expression "Held him over a barrel". Yes, they were all subjected to the same horrific fate as all the rest of us, but when he was finished with them they controlled him with threats of exposure and made him pay and pay dearly for both their "Service and Silence" to quote one of my friends who belongs to this group. From stereos to motorbikes to cold hard cash they got it all and at the time felt no guilt nor regret. From speaking with some of those lads that I still consider good friends, I now understand that although they knew that Father Fortune was abusing and raping everyone and anyone he wanted, they all thought that because they were controlling and dare I say blackmailing him that everyone was, and it is that thought that effects most of those lads today.

So, there it is, "Three" distinct groups, all victims of a depraved monster but yet and in hindsight clearly 30/30/30 vision! 

Read Part 2: “The” Two Most Effective Tools to Aid Your Recovery from Abuse


"The ruthless honesty of Mr. Bennett means that this is not a story with a sentimental and unambiguously happy ending. He is still on a journey that is sometimes difficult and painful, but he has shown remarkable courage, integrity and honesty and done the community a service by writing this extraordinary and valuable book."

January 23, 2018

No-Nonsense Essential Oil Use: Stay Safe and Sane Use Beyond the Hype

In this final post by Lane Therrell, she explores how to use essential oils safely to support your health by tuning out the hype and accessing real-world information.

If you’ve been following my series of articles on essential oils (EOs) in trauma treatment on this blog site, you’re likely already integrating EOs into your treatment plan. While I hope you are having good results and enjoying the process, I wouldn’t be doing my job as a nurse and EO enthusiast if I didn’t say a few words about safety and best use practices for EOs.

This article is all about how you can use EOs safely to support your health by getting past the marketing hype and accessing the real-world information. I’ll set the stage for your better understanding by providing some background on the EO industry and some context about where EOs fit in healthcare. My goal is to empower and inspire you to become a savvy EO consumer and a safe EO user.

To be a savvy consumer of EOs, it helps to know how the growing EO industry and the modern medical paradigm influence the prevalent marketing messages about EOs that circulate on the Internet.

Current Growth of EO Industry
The EO industry worldwide has been growing quickly for more than two decades, and some sources predict the global EO market will reach $13.94 billion by 2024. Many consumer goods, including personal care items, cosmetics, home care and cleaning supplies, foods and beverages, pest control, and more, use EOs as flavor and fragrance ingredients and as part of their production processes. Aromatherapy is a fast-growing growing segment of the over-all EO market, and consumer demand for high-quality natural produces is expected to continue growing.

Quality Considerations
Savvy EO consumers keep two major factors in mind when assessing the quality of EOs for direct personal use: 1) natural EOs are produced from living plants; 2) commercially produced EOs are subject to adulteration.

The fact that EOs come from plants means there is a high variability from crop to crop, year to year. Myriad factors are involved in growing plants and producing EOs. Everything from the seeds, to the soil, to the water, air, and other growing conditions, as well as harvesting and production procedures, all have an influence on the quality of the oil that is ultimately produced. Growers of plants harvested for EOs must consider and control for numerous environmental factors in much the same way that vintners talk about “good years” and ‘bad years” for wine.

A second quality consideration for EO consumers is known as adulteration. It’s common practice in the EO industry to adulterate, cut, or extend, a batch of pure EO with other substances for manufacturing purposes. These adulterated compounds are less expensive than the pure EO, the process of adulteration also helps to standardize, or compensate, for the baseline variability of the plant material. This helps manufacturers, like perfumers, for example, produce a consistent product over time.

Consumers choosing EOs for direct therapeutic application must avoid adulterated EOs because the impurities make adulterated products unlikely to have the intended therapeutic effect. Also, depending on how the EO was adulterated, it may have a toxic or harmful effect.  As a general rule, inexpensive EOs are likely to be adulterated.

However, savvy consumers are also aware that an expensive price-tag alone is no guarantee that the product in the bottle is pure.  When shopping for a pure, natural EO, investigate the reputation of the brand and check for the Latin name of the plant on the label. Choose oils that are packaged in dark glass bottles and do not leave an oily residue on fingers or paper. And of course, a pure EO will not have an artificial or alcoholic aroma.

Medical Paradigms and EOs
Simply stated, the use of EOs falls outside the prevailing modern medical paradigm, or way of thinking, about human health. The biomedical model is described as reductionistic, exclusionary, and even fear-based. While the biomedical model supports acute care extremely well, it does not adequately support the treatment of chronic illnesses which are a growing concern and account for more than 75% percent of today’s healthcare costs.

The paradigm change in medicine to accommodate the need for better, more comprehensive, chronic care is not yet complete, but the process has opened the door for public interest in complementary, integrative, healing techniques such as EOs.

Since EOs and other modalities that fall under the classification of “natural healing” or “health and wellness” are part of a different paradigm than that upon which mainstream healthcare is based, your physicians and other healthcare providers are unlikely to be educated about them. This speaks to the importance of finding experts and resources you can trust to provide you with credible information as the need arises.

If you choose to think about your health differently, you don’t get to abnegate good judgment or common sense or wear a tinfoil hat. As a matter of fact, your responsibility for your own health increases when you explore topics on which your physician is not educated. No matter what paradigm informs your thoughts, actions and decisions, you still need to use logic and common sense and the scientific method to make decisions that are right for you.

Influences on EO Marketing Messages: Context Has Consequences
The rapid rise in popularity of EOs and the non-mainstream nature of their use for health improvement puts EO marketers under scrutiny from government industry regulators. The Food and Drug Administration (FDA) monitors the language used online for promoting and marketing EOs and stipulates that no public medical claims can be made about EOs. Broadly interpreted, the mandate also curtails discussions of the specific chemical compounds and their biological effects, which are central to the efficacy of EOs.

While this may sound like an effective form of consumer protection, it results in marketing and teaching materials about the action and efficacy of EOs that are vague and non-specific. For example, instead of saying “This oil can prevent colds and flu,” an EO marketer who wishes to remain in compliance with the FDA should say, instead, “this oil supports your immune system.”

This kind of obscurity can make it difficult for those who are new to EOs to understand how they work, specifically, and how they differ from one another. As public interest in EOs continues to grow the need for education will increase, and these limits on public discourse about EOs will continue to perpetuate misinformation, misunderstanding, and even misuse of the products.

How is a person with little scientific or medical background and a lot of interest in EOs supposed to sift through it all and use EOs safely? That very question is part of why I’m so passionate about helping you to claim ownership of your EO knowledge, encouraging you to network with EO experts you trust, and steering you toward reliable resources so you can do your own research.

Tips for Safe and Sane EO Use
Here are some of my personal favorite best practices for safe and sane EO use. These tips are from my personal and professional experience, and are some of the things I wish someone had told me early on my journey to integrating EOs into my life. I’ve included some sources and resources at the end of the article that you may find useful.

Use only top-quality EOs. Find a brand (or brands) you trust, and stick with them. Quality oils require an investment, so I encourage you to shop around for the best prices.  And you if you ever catch yourself saying, or thinking, “I can get this oil so much cheaper at the drug store,” please review the section on quality above.

Less is more. Essential oils are highly concentrated substances. A little goes a long way. Even if you use EOs in your life daily, you don’t need to use the same oils constantly.  Start with the smallest amount of EO that produces the intended effect. And remember that even normally non-toxic substances can have toxic effects if you use too much too often.  While a healthy enthusiasm for EOs is fun and brings joy to your life in many ways, if you find yourself admitting to a friend, “I diffuse my oils constantly,” it might be time to take a step back and re-valuate your practices. In general, you don’t want it to diffuse EOs for longer than 8 hours at time in a small room.

Dilute EOs with carrier oils, not water. EOs are fat soluble, so if you put a sample on your skin, and it tingles unpleasantly or turns red, attempting to wash it off with water can make the reaction worse, not better. Use a “carrier oil,” such as olive oil, coconut oil, almond oil, jojoba oil, or another fatty oil to dilute the EO.

Test first, then apply. And speaking of skin reactions… get in the habit of performing a patch test before applying a new oil topically over a large area. Learn to recognize allergies/adverse reactions, and be aware that while our bodies usually embrace and assimilate EOs readily as natural products, some people can have reactions and sensitivities. If you’re ever in doubt about whether an EO is causing an adverse reaction, stop using your EO. Consult with your physician and contact an EO expert.

Citrus oils can be sun sensitizing. When applying citrus oils topically, be aware that they can increase the sun-sensitivity of your skin. This applies to blends containing citrus oils as well as single oils.

Be alert for drug-EO interactions. Some medications just don’t mix with EOs. If the body metabolizes the oil using the same pathway as the medication, the effect of your medication could be increased, decreased, or even blocked. So, it pays to be careful if you’re taking prescription medication and using EOs at the same time. More research needs to be done in this area, and the research that has been done so far is not set in stone. As a nurse, I personally like to promote caution. A well-referenced list of potentially inadvisable drug-EO combinations is available here.

Just because an EO works for you doesn’t mean it will work the same way for others. Every individual is different, and can respond differently to the same oil. While lavender has a relaxing effect on most people, some people experience just the opposite. And, if you catch yourself thinking, “If it’s good enough for me, it’s good enough for Fido and the kids, too,” stop and do some research. Not all EOs that are safe for pets. And remember that your kids’ bodies are smaller than yours, so you’ll want to use smaller amounts of EOs with them, and, use a carrier oil to dilute the EO. And, store your EOs out of reach of children and pets so they don’t accidentally drink or spill them.

Pregnant? Proceed with caution. It’ not true that you can’t use EOs at all during pregnancy, but there are some EOs you should avoid; EOs that stimulate the nervous system, mimic estrogen, or otherwise affect hormones should be avoided. Remember that using topically or internally is different from diffusing.

Cultivate the right mindset for EO use. Operating within a different paradigm demands a different way of thinking. A natural wellness paradigm demands that you see the health of your body, mind and spirit as a set of interconnected systems. When you take responsibility for your health, you agree to have an open mind, you agree to give whatever you try enough time to work, and you agree to keep records to track your results.

Have realistic expectations. The EOs act as a catalyst for change and they are pure natural substances so they bridge the gaps between body mind and spirit and achieve results in very different ways than targeted pharmaceuticals are designed to do. You don’t benefit from an all or nothing approach; you do benefit from integration. You must be willing take responsibility for your own healing. You must cultivate awareness of your own body, mind, and spirit. Body awareness is necessary to cultivate. There is a difference between cure, healing, and quality of life. Your oils are add-ons to your treatments, not substitutes for treatment.

Consider your sources. Information is cheap, and there is a lot of misleading or inaccurate information about EOs on the Internet. If you ever catch yourself saying, “I got this on the internet so it must be true,” think again. There’s a difference between reliable sources and marketing hype. Your path to knowledge is your own. Trust your instincts. Always ask your questions. Keep asking until you are satisfied. Remain skeptical. Look for your sources’ credentials, training, and background. Find your favorite go-to resources, and stick with them.

Set boundaries and systematize to build confidence. The vast amount of information available on EOs can seem overwhelming and even intimidating at first. If you catch yourself feeling ready to give up, or saying or thinking, “I need to know everything about these oils in order to use them safely,” I invite you to take imperfect action. You don’t need to know everything to get started with EOs and use them safely. Just pick 5 oils you’re interested in (go with 3 if 5 seems like too many), and get to know them like friends—learn about the plants they come from, their chemical constituents, the best ways to use them, whatever interests you. As you explore the information on these oils, develop a system you can repeat for learning and discovering the information—what method worked best for you, what resources provided information quickest, etc. 

Have fun exploring EOs for better health. When I first got introduced to EOs, it was an exhilarating experience to read about a new EO and then try it out. Almost two decades later, I still feel like a kid in a candy store when I get a new EO book or experience a new oil blend. If you’ve tried EOs, and they’re not fun and interesting for you, that’s OK, maybe they’re not for you. Let it go. You can always come back to it later.

EOs offer an unparalleled opportunity to take ownership of your personal wellness. They can be a powerful tool for empowering your best health, including trauma recovery. Not only are they effective, they are pleasant, portable, and even fun. But, like any tool, they require proper and skillful use and management if you want to achieve the desired results.

By being a savvy consumer of EOs and observing best practices for their safe use, EOs can support your efforts to end the emotional roller coaster, -escape the pain of the past, take charge of your brain, feel less triggered and more in control, imagine the future you’ve always wanted. EOs may not be for everyone, all the time, but they are most CERTAINLY worth a try. When you use EOs with respect and awareness, you can enjoy their benefits long-term in your treatment plans and in your life.

An Invitation:
I hope you have enjoyed this series about EOs. If you’ve determined that they are for you and you want to know more, I cordially invite you to participate in my essential oil study group. In the group, we’ll discuss some of the specific safe and sane ways enjoy EOs and you’ll have a chance to get to know other avid oilers as well. Sign up via my web site www.BestHealthInterest.com

Questions for comment: What did you wish someone had told you before you started using EOs? What do you enjoy most about EOs? What did you learn about EOs from this article?


Lane Therrell is a family nurse practitioner, health empowerment coach, trauma survivor, and self-described EO aficionado. She uses EOs as tools in her health coaching programs whenever appropriate and leads an EO study group (starting in February 2018) for those who want to learn more details about how EOs work. Lane is a distributor for a popular EO brand, and is dedicated to sharing basic EO use and safety knowledge with anyone. Connect with Lane at www.BestHealthInterest.com

Sources and resources:

Are Essential Oils Safe?

Aromatherapy Resources

Beware: Adulteration of Essential Oils, Part I

Essential Oils and the “Detox” Theory

Essential Oil Market Size To Reach $13.94 Billion By 2024

How Do Essential Oils Work?

How To Use Essential Oils Safely

Medicine’s Paradigm Shift: An Opportunity for Psychology

Paradigms in Medicine: Consequences for Medical Education

Pharmaceutical Drug Interactions or Contraindications

Robert Tisserand’s Recommended Reading

Safely Using Essential Oils With Pets

The 6 Principles of Naturopathic Medicine

The Paradigm Shift in Medicine and Science

Using Essential Oils Safely During Pregnancy & Breastfeeding

January 16, 2018

Considerations for Using Essential Oils for PTSD

In this week's post, Lane explores PTSD and how essential oils can be used to treat the symptoms associated with PTSD.


If you read my previous article on this site, about how to choose an essential oil, you can guess what my answer would be if you were to ask me, "What's the best oil for PTSD?" It’s a frequently asked question, for which my standard answer, "it depends," is always followed by the deeply transformative question: "What is it about the PTSD that affects you most?"

This follow-up question is particularly powerful because PTSD describes a constellation of recurrent symptoms that can manifest differently for everyone. Your personal insight and desire for change holds the keys to the unaddressed aspects of your treatment plan. I have noticed no matter how significant and even debilitating the individual symptoms associated with PTSD may be, much of the frustration and discomfort of having PTSD stems from the all-too-often ineffective methods of treatment.

While the standard approach to treating PTSD with psychotherapy and medication may be effective some of the time, they don’t work for everyone. Psychotherapy and medications are the standard treatments for PTSD, but according to my professional patients and private clients, these approaches don’t always cover the myriad needs that arise in the context of PTSD.  

Psychotherapy usually involves recalling painful past memories that may retraumatize a person rather than help them release the memories and move forward with their lives. And, the available medications may not address the specific physiologic pathways that are out of balance for the individual. In other words, serotonin is not the only neurotransmitter that may be out of balance in PTSD, so SSRI medication will only work for some people or do part of the job. PTSD is complex and not yet fully understood by science.

Meanwhile, many people suffer from PTSD. According to the 5th Edition of the American Psychological Association’s Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM V), some 9% of adults in the United States will experience PTSD in their lifetime. While not everyone who experiences trauma develops full-blown PTSD, certain people are more prone to it than others, and it usually develops when there is a personal, deeply emotional, aspect to the trauma experience. Notably, PTSD is more common in women than men.

The best EOs for PTSD target your individual symptoms while supporting the areas in your treatment plan that may not be addressed by other methods. Remember EOs work best as an add-on to what you’re already doing, and are not recommended as a stand-alone treatment type.

This article explores a couple of innovative approaches for treating PTSD and provides examples of how EOs can fit in to an overall plan to create success stories.

To set the stage for discussion, it’s helpful to review. The Veterans Administration (VA), classifies the myriad symptoms associated with PTSD into 4 categories:

Repeatedly re-living the event – This collection of symptoms involves recurring and intrusive bad memories or nightmares, or reliving the event as if you are going through it all over again, aka “flashbacks.”

Avoidance of triggers – Avoidance symptoms involve withdrawing or isolating yourself because certain people or situations tend to trigger unpleasant memories of the traumatic event. You not only avoid those people or situations, you also avoid talking or thinking about the event.

Intensified negativity – These symptoms, while closely related to depression are distinct: The way you think about yourself, others, and the world changed for the worse after the trauma, characterized by depressive symptoms, shutting down or numbing out.

Hyperarousal – These symptoms are close cousins of anxiety: You feel always-on, jittery, or wound up and constantly alert for danger. You have trouble concentrating, focusing, or sleeping, may startle easily and get easily irritated, or have sudden angry outbursts.

As previously stated, not everyone who experiences trauma is diagnosed with PTSD. It's when these collective symptoms are ongoing for months and become disruptive to your daily life that the diagnosis of PTSD comes into play.

PTSD can be treated via a symptom-management approach, which our standard treatments are designed to do. We can also choose more novel, holistic, and integrative approaches to address the root cause(s) of the problem. It’s important to note that complex conditions like PTSD are likely to have more than one single cause. The best explanations I’ve heard for possible root causes of PTSD come from Stephen Porges, who developed polyvagal theory, and Peter Levine, who developed something called Somatic Experiencing Technique.

The Vagus Nerve and PTSD
Polyvagal theory, developed by Stephen Porges, offers interesting insight into the world of PTSD. While the theory itself is too complex to explain in this
article, it’s helpful to know that the vagus nerve, also known as cranial nerve number 10, is the longest nerve in the body, stretching literally from the brain stem to the intestines. It quite literally makes the body-mind connection possible, and it plays a key role in keeping us calm, relaxed, and balanced. Stimulating the vagus nerve (vagal stimulation) will produce a parasympathetic, or relaxation response in the body. The growing body of research in psychological neurology is showing that individuals suffering from PTSD can often benefit from vagal nerve stimulation techniques.

The Body Stores Trauma
Polyvagal theory, informs the practices developed by Peter Levine, called Somatic Experiencing Technique or somatic therapy. Dr. Levine basically explains PTSD as the energy of the trauma remaining trapped in the body because it was never properly discharged. 

Levine’s somatic technique is all about helping the client complete any incomplete parts of the fight or flight response by feeling the sensations any memory of the trauma creates in the body, and allowing for the discharge the trapped energy of the trauma.

Levine’s idea about energy being trapped…recognizing and releasing the physical tensions that may remain in the body in the aftermath of a traumatic event. 

What’s nice about somatic techniques is that they allow you to resolve the past by releasing stored emotions. These techniques empower people to be present in the moment, moderate the amount of sensory input they receive from the environment and feel emotions fully, reframing past negatives to build self-confidence, resilience, and hope.

If you are interested, in knowing more about Somatic Experiencing Technique, I highly recommend Dr. Levine’s books Waking the Tiger: Healing Trauma and In An Unspoken Voice.

What does all of this have to do with choosing the best EOs for PTSD? EOs can serve as a vehicle for vagal stimulation, and they us back to ourselves, help us experience the body and our senses and our emotions in the present moment.

If you embrace the notion that your vagus nerve is involved in keeping you calm and relaxed, and your treatment outcome goal becomes, "increase vagal tone," or, "support my parasympathetic response," you’ll look for oils that are known to strengthen the nerves, support the nervous system or have a calming effect. 

Your search would likely turn up marjoram, basil, citrus oils like lime and bergamot, as well as frankincense and sandalwood.

If the idea of releasing the trapped energy becomes your treatment outcome goal, you’ll look for oils that are reported to facilitate emotional release and balance, and oils that create spiritual connections. Your research for these types of oils is likely to reveal frankincense, sandalwood, cedarwood, and rose as top picks.

Specific Oils and Success Stories: Tried and true for PTSD
There are many methods for vagal stimulation, and Somatic Experiencing technique is just one of many variations of somatic therapy. While these methods and techniques do not require EOs to be effective, in my experience, EOs can be extremely useful tools for facilitating the process of emotional release and parasympathetic response.

These following success stories are offered here shared as examples to show you how you might use your knowledge of PTSD treatment innovations along with EOs to enhance your treatment plan. Names have been changed to protect client privacy. If you have PTSD, and choose to add innovative approaches to your existing treatment plan, including EOs, I recommend that you do so under the care of a trained professional. Remember that EOs alone are not a substitute for professional medical treatment.

EO Success Story #1
Susan suffered from undiagnosed PTSD for decades years after a combat-related back injury in the Gulf War. She startled easily at loud noises and often had bad dreams that kept her from getting the rest she needed. She regularly attended group support sessions for injured veterans through the VA. She read that marjoram (Origanum majorana) could increase “nerve tone.” After performing a patch test with a drop of marjoram neat (undiluted) on her forearm, and observing no adverse skin reaction after 24 hours, she began placing a drop of marjoram behind each ear every evening before bed. She noticed a profound sense of relaxation, and deeper breathing, consistent with what one could expect from increasing vagal tone. She also decided to create a basil (Ocimum basilicum) and lemon (Citrus limon)  mixture (3:1 ratio, in distilled water) in a spray bottle to spritz her over her pillows before retiring each night. She found that these practices resulted in more restful sleep with fewer intrusive dreams. Loud noises ceased to startle her so easily, and although she still chooses not to attend fireworks shows on the 4th of July, she says she no longer dreads the summer holiday.

EO Success Story #2
Sandra was diagnosed with PTSD a year after being raped. Despite extensive psychotherapy and a number of different medications, the sight of a man with a beard consistently triggered her memories to the point where she became reluctant to go out in public beyond traveling to and from work. Sandra began applying a drop of rose (Rosa damascena) EO topically over her heart, over her throat and on the top of her head each morning before leaving the house. She topically applied a few drops of a mixture of rose and lavender (Lavandula angustifolia) over her heart, throat, on the top of her head and on the bottoms of feet before going to bed each evening. She applied the oils topically over her heart and throat prior to her regularly scheduled therapy and coaching sessions. After gaining further confidence, she substituted ylang ylang (Cananga odorata) for the rose, and continued the same topical application routine. After about 6 weeks, Sandra had the confidence to go shopping alone after work. She said she felt restored and balanced and could venture forth into the world without fear of being triggered. She carries her oils in her purse and inhales or applies them whenever she feels they are needed.

EO Success Story #3
After growing up in a childhood home filled with abuses of every type, Janet found herself in a pattern of self-sabotage and negativity. No job was good enough, no relationship was good enough, and she felt she, herself, wasn’t good enough. When any potential conflict arose in her professional or personal life, she would shut down rather than create an opportunity to criticize or be criticized. In addition to her regular therapy and coaching, Janet began to diffuse frankincense (Boswellia carterii) at bedtime and orange (Citrus sinensis) during the day. She began to inhale frankincense and apply it topically on specific tapping points during her EFT sessions. Soon Janet became interested in adding a daily meditation practice to her routine and she began to experiment with which essential oil would help deepen her meditative state.  She tried frankincense and sandalwood (Santalum album) both, and decided she liked sandalwood the best. She says she is happier and more confident in her relationships now and she applies frankincense topically to her throat area before she engages in any conversation that could potentially be confrontational.

What happens next?
If you decide to take action on any of the ideas presented in this article remember that EOs can be a powerful catalyst for healing and you need to be ready for them. You are likely to have a significant release. While the discharge of the trapped energy is often very intense, it can represent a significant breakthrough in your treatment journey – just be prepared—in a safe place and under the care and assistance of a trusted and trained professional.

You may find that your use of EOs allows you to break through a plateau in your recovery process. Remember that breakthroughs often are accompanied by massive outpourings of emotion, so be prepared for this! Just know and be comforted that you are choosing to have these types of releases and breakthroughs along your journey.

So much of recovering from trauma is about tuning in and becoming aware of yourself and how you interact with the rest of the world, so deciding if you’re ready, and taking ownership of your treatment plan is part of the process.
To get started, follow my 3-step process for choosing the right oil for you. Seek the help of someone who is experienced in your treatment technique of choice and knowledgeable about essential oils (they may not necessarily be the same person). Use only the highest quality therapeutic grade EOs, and follow the basic commonsense safety recommendations, which we’ll talk more about this in our final article. See you then.

Questions for comment: If you have been diagnosed with PTSD, what is it about the condition that affects you most? How have EOs helped you so far?


Lane Therrell is a family nurse practitioner, health empowerment coach, trauma survivor, and self-described EO aficionado. She uses EOs as tools in her health coaching programs whenever appropriate and leads an EO study group (starting in February 2018) for those who want to learn more details about how EOs work. Lane is a distributor for a popular EO brand, and is dedicated to sharing basic EO use and safety knowledge with anyone. Connect with Lane at www.BestHealthInterest.com

Hacking the Nervous System

How Somatic Therapy Can Help Patients Suffering from Psychological Trauma

Is There a Standardized Method for Measuring Vagal Tone

Neuroendocrine System

Phases of Trauma Recovery

Polyvagal Theory Helps Unlock the Symptoms of PTSD – Dr. Arielle Schwartz

Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder

Recovering from Trauma

The Body is Key in Trauma: Tips from Somatic Experiencing

What is PTSD?

Here is a link to a really good YouTube video I found that showcases some recent scientific research on orange essential and PTSD/anxiety in animal models.

Orange essential oil may help alleviate PTSD and Anxiety

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